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Everyone experiences stress in their lives, right?
We have money to make, bills to pay, jobs to go to on time, kids to look after, friends complaining about their problems while you complain about yours.
We struggle to find time to fit everything we need to do into one day most days, other days we might find ourselves with nothing to do and it's boring!
Have you ever asked yourself "What am I doing with my life?" or "What's next for me?".
Or how about "It's always the same"? You'll work all month, get paid, pay it all out on everything you've used for that time period.
There's always the other side, where you don't have enough to cover what you need, so you certainly won't have anything left for the things you WANT.
Sound familiar?
Unfortunately it probably does.
All of these factors, job stress, money worries, home issues, social obstacles, car problems, routines and constantly on the go trying to better each individual thing all at the same time.
How is that working for you? I'd bet not too great. So why is it such an acceptable standard of living for most of us? Most importantly, what else could we be doing to upgrade our lives as a whole?
Let's look at two random peoples lives : Mary and John.
Mary works part time three days a week for 2.5 hours while their 2 young children are at nursery. Mary goes home after nursery, feeds her 2 young children and has time to play with them for another half an hour (after the lunch clean up and a quick wash is thrown in the machine) before she has to go pick up their eldest child who is in primary 2. John works a 40 hour week, leaving the house at 6am to commute to his place of work, he starts at 7:30am and works hard all day doing a lot of heavy lifting. It pays well but it also hurts his whole body. He gets home between 6:45pm-7:30pm depending on traffic. Mary has already fed and bathed the kids, done homework with the oldest child and the two youngest children are asleep. The eldest child jumps on John as soon as he gets in the door as it's their bedtime too and they only have a few minutes to say goodnight. John is sore and stressed out from work all day so he doesn't really feel like being hung onto by a 6 year old spider-monkey, but he takes it anyway as he loves his child and doesn't get to see them as often as he'd like. Once the eldest child is in bed and john as washed the days grime off him he goes to eat his dinner, prepared and cooked hours earlier by Mary, who can't help if the traffic makes him late. All john wants to do is sit and chill by the tv for a couple of hours before it's time for bed, before it's time to start another grueling day of work. Mary wants to update john on the kids progress at school, she also informs him of the amount due to the electricity company and the car needs MOT'd next month, it probably needs new back tires so there's that to save for, not to mention it's one of the youngest children's birthdays in a couple of months so they're going to have to tighten the belt a little. The belts already choking john by the neck he couldn't possibly tighten it any more. John ends up telling Mary to give it a rest and adds that things will be fine. Mary doesn't think things will be fine and they end up going to bed after an argument.
Mary and John are not living a happy or fulfilling life. They are both tired to the point of worn out, almost broke and they rent their house so it's not like they can sell it, live somewhere cheaper and start with a few grand from a house sale in the bank. Even if they did own their own home it could be years before it was sold, not helping things either.
Their lifes resemble to many of our own.
What can we do about it though?
How can we be happier?
How can we have more?
How do we even begin to think of a way out of some of our bigger issues?
Well, I'm not a billionaire, or even a millionaire. Hell I live out of my over-draft and get week to week using an iAdvance on my mastercard (which is a pre-paid, not a credit card - I can't get credit but even if I could I wouldn't), so I can't sweep in and pay all of your debt giving you a new lease at life... Though I do think I can do more for people.
This is how I do something about my issues and situations, I have learned my purpose is to help people figure things out in a much more realistically manageable level. I want to get you from Mary and John's situation, or from ANY other situation and help you turn things around.
I'm looking for real people who are so stressed out and don't think they can take anymore, people that don't have a lot of options left or can't get from where they are in life to where they want to be due to some kind of mental block, people with little issues and the bigger ones, relationship problems, money worries, job stress, life stress...
Whatever your problem is - fire it at me and let me see if I can help.
It's free! There's nothing to lose, so even if you tell me your problem and you don't think I can help you, you're not losing anything and maybe just the chance to vent would help a little!
I don't make any promises, I'm not qualified in legal areas and cannot provide you with legal advice. Life advice a-plenty though!
Drop me an email, let's have a chat and see if there's anything we can do to help your situation!